Saturday 9 June 2012

an embarrassment subject

M: "hey A what's your plan? I wanna see vivid Sydney this year"
A: "I'm going to see vivid Sydney tonite"
M: "wah a coincidence, can I tag along?"
A: "I'm going with my friends, so you cannot tag along"

.......

M: "I haven't watched the avengers, wanna watch with me?"
B: "I'm watching it tonight with my friends"
M: "can I join? I promise to come alone and late so you don't have to intro me"
B: "no, you can't join, because I'm watching with my friend"

.......

M: rrrriiing.... "hey, let's go out for a drink"
C: "I am having one with D"
M: "where?, I'll join up"
C: "sorry M, but I'm with other friend as well, so I can't"
M: "oh"

.......

Don't blame me if I become cynical, but those responses are just so mean. I dono how else to react. Am I a subject of embarrasement for them? I don't look ugly, I tend to be quiet and observant among people I just met because I don wanna say things I shouldn't say. They need a better excuse than that. Like seriously, the only time they ring me is when they want something from me.***

27 comments:

  1. don't think too much la..
    you might be the reason why they don;t want the friend to meet.. cos once they met u, they might be not attracted to your friends anymore :p
    happy weekend :))

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  2. Perhaps finding new friends will help ?

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    1. yeh, I shall, it's just the circle shrunk as people leave for good

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  3. herm... they do sounds mean...

    agree with Chen Xing, time for new friends?

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    1. they do, I thought it's just me, but maybe it's just their own life policy

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  4. time to play hard, babe..two can play the same game and they gonna suffer more when u did that considering u had been a faithful listener to their rambling and whatsoever shit

    I love Danny's reasoning XD

    *hugs* u deserve someone better than those bitches =)

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    1. I just made my last attempt for someone today, and that's the last straw, no more

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  5. I'll be proud to intro you to my friends. =D

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  6. i would say move on, mate! find new friends and ignore them when they call you for wanting something from you.

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    1. changing number perhaps, still in consideration

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  7. I'm always joining my friend's friend to go yamcha :D If your friend's aren't keen on introducing you to their friends, I'd say get out and make some new friends :)

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    1. I think these particular friends have issues on their own, when one of them broke up and I was in the middle of drinking with Chloe and her friends, I took him along after asking Chloe's permission obviously, just to distract him, but this is what I got in exchange, his friends are exclusive and I have to stay away

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  8. this is really horrible ):

    maybe you need better friends. *hugs*

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  9. I agree with u... When ur friend ever call u is when they need ur help....

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  10. some saying:

    Friends love misery, in fact. Sometimes, especially if we are too lucky or too successful or too pretty, our misery is the only thing that endears us to our friends. -Erica Jong-

    it's probably what's happening around me but I didn't realise it X(

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    1. well, it just means that u have something; ur look, ur personality, ur body, ur wealth; that they all are jealous XD oh well...

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    2. or my misery for not having all of those?

      LOL,

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  11. i had a friend like this before. his reasoning? i don't know his friends. his friends don't know me. so, it will be awkward for both parties - me and his friends - if we were all to be together.

    i don't think much about it. i got to know heaps of people by just joining my other friends in whatever things they do with their friends that i didn't know. i hope this is not confusing....

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    1. In case A, true I don't know his friends, in case B I know two of his friends as we're mutual friend, in case C I have D as our mutual friend and only learnt that they friend C mentioned apparently 9 of them are our mutual friends too.

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    2. I wasn't thinking so much, I was just pissing so much, hahahahahaha

      J/k j/k

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  12. i was pondering for a while abt this post. Then i wondered what would happen if you ask them directly "WHY NOT?" (Either they are unaware how hurtful they are or they better be ready to say it straight in yr face the reasons)

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    1. of course they are gonna throw a million of non-sense (and potentially a lie) excuses, because I tried that before. starting from, "I have a policy of not mixing friends circles"[wait, but if I know one of them it means we're in the same circle] or "I am not out yet and afraid that you may make them wonder why do I be-friend with you"[then why did you find me when you need to talk] or "I don't think you will like these friends"[I think that's my part to decide] and so on and so on.

      And I am mentally ready to cut them loose. I just write-off one of them last nite.

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